Let’s keep it simple. So many people don’t know why they aren’t liked. Yet, it only takes two minutes with them to realize why it’s so as an observer of how they talk, think and act. In fact it comes as a big shock when people think the opposite of them, yet their behaviour is self centered, me-focused and 100% for their own gain. Where is the space to relate to another? Taking the time to retreat and refocus yourself therapeutically, and regain a sense of a person you and others can not only like but love, might be worth its weight in gold.
Making friends is not a magical ability that only a few have. It is a learned skill. Most of us learned how to make friends when we were little but many of us need to learn the new skill of making friends as adults.
To do that…
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