Stop trying to cope. and cram up your life. It does not work!! Only in another 10 years will we be reading about how people used to glorify busy. Coping with depression and anxiety and stress is ridiculous and it simply doesn't work.
Who are you without your story? How would you feel if you did not think about the things that hurt you, that have caused you so much pain and trauma in life?
Getting out of your Drama Triangle starts with you knowing you're in one. Drama is something we and other people use to distract us from the reality of how we feel.
Self-love and depression don't naturally go together because when you have depression, it’s hard to loveyourself.
Many people with BPD and addiction ask themselves “Why me?” You may have a sibling, parent or other relative who also has a serious mental illness or an addiction to alcohol or other drugs, and you probably have many relatives who have not been afflicted with a mental illness or addiction.
People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I got to know about the 5 Regrets of the dying. I learnt never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth.
It's a known fact that Bad habits worsen depression and anxiety. They make what is bad, worse. They make change allude us and then delude us.
Fear is the root cause of depression. Depression is not a disease, but rather “a symptom, a sign that life is out of balance and change is necessary.
I’m not okay. I’m not lovable. I’m not deserving. I’m not worthy. Healing depression through shadow work will teach you to notice these thoughts and voices in your head.
You will need to change your physiology, your emotional states and your thinking or psychology. You will also need a forth aspect of self, which is your soul or spirit. This means you will simply start needing to look inwards.