Who are you without your story? How would you feel if you did not think about the things that hurt you, that have caused you so much pain and trauma in life?
Getting out of your Drama Triangle starts with you knowing you're in one. Drama is something we and other people use to distract us from the reality of how we feel.
Many people with BPD and addiction ask themselves “Why me?” You may have a sibling, parent or other relative who also has a serious mental illness or an addiction to alcohol or other drugs, and you probably have many relatives who have not been afflicted with a mental illness or addiction.
Looking at oneself and becoming aware of what our problems are. Getting honest with ourselves and others about the good and the bad, can make all the difference in the world to our happiness.