Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder that can significantly impact a person’s life, affecting their behavior, thoughts, emotions, and social interactions. It’s often misunderstood, with many people assuming it’s simply a matter of being “overly energetic” or “lacking focus.” However, ADHD is a complex condition with a strong genetic component. In fact, it is a strongly inherited illness, and it’s not uncommon for parents to recognize the symptoms in themselves after their child is diagnosed. This often leads to a greater understanding of their own lifelong struggles and challenges.
According to Our Center for Healing and Life Transformation in South Africa, ADHD is characterized by a persistent pattern of three core symptoms: inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. These symptoms are often accompanied by a range of other behavioral, cognitive, emotional, and social problems.
There are three types of ADHD:
- Predominantly inattentive type (often referred to as ADD)
- Predominantly hyperactive-impulsive type
- Combined type, where individuals exhibit symptoms of both inattention and hyperactive-impulsivity.
Let’s delve deeper into each of these core symptoms and their manifestations.

Inattention
The inattentive type of ADHD is often more prevalent in women. It’s not just about getting distracted; it’s a profound difficulty in sustaining focus. Inattention can manifest in various ways, including:
- Difficulty staying on task: Easily sidetracked or “zoning out” during conversations or activities.
- Lacking persistence: Giving up on tasks that require sustained effort.
- Paralyzing procrastination: Delaying tasks to the point of a crisis or feeling completely overwhelmed by them.
- Poor time management: Underestimating the time needed for tasks and struggling to meet deadlines.
- Disorganization: Losing things frequently, having a cluttered workspace, or struggling to follow a plan.
- Inefficiency: Taking much longer than others to complete simple tasks.
Hyperactivity
Hyperactivity is more than just being energetic. It refers to excessive motor activity that is not appropriate for the situation. It can show up as:
- Excessive fidgeting, tapping, or talkativeness: Constant movement that can be distracting to others.
- Feeling an internal restlessness: Even if they aren’t physically moving, they may feel a constant need to be doing something.
- Being a workaholic: Constantly taking on new projects or tasks to satisfy a need for activity.
- Overscheduled and overwhelmed: Trying to fit too much into their day, leading to burnout and stress.
- Wearing others out with their activity: Family and friends may find it difficult to keep up with their pace.
Impulsivity
Impulsivity refers to hasty actions that occur without forethought. This can have significant, and sometimes serious, consequences in a person’s life. It can translate into:
- Poor management of personal finances: Making impulsive purchases or struggling to stick to a budget.
- Higher chance of divorce: Hasty decisions and difficulty with emotional regulation can strain relationships.
- Less likely to be promoted: Impulsive actions or comments can be misinterpreted in the workplace.
- Difficulty with interpersonal relationships: Interrupting others, blurting out thoughts, and struggling to wait their turn in conversations.
- Unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases: Engaging in risky behaviors without considering the consequences.
- Possible substance abuse or other addiction issues: Including internet addiction, gambling, or other compulsive behaviors.
- Reckless driving: Taking risks on the road without considering the danger.
In addition to these core symptoms, our psychotherapist adds that associated symptoms of ADHD can include mood swings, temper outbursts, and sleep and appetite disturbances.
Recognizing these warning signs is the first step toward getting a diagnosis and the right support. If you or a loved one are experiencing these symptoms, it’s essential to consult with a healthcare professional for a proper evaluation. Understanding ADHD is key to managing its challenges and unlocking a more fulfilling life.
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